i write notes but don't pass them around

much of life is trying to make sense of life. we do that through attempting to express our experiences and then evaluating it to see whether they ring true. we normally need another person to hear our attempt so that we can hear it ourselves. often we don't ask for a problem solver, because we need a listener, one who lets the other friend tell the story, and have the imagination to be with them in it.

oh, and yeah, don't expect people to actually be like the above description all the time. expectations are like limitations (no, that was not supposed to rhyme). they limit you to this notion of having to reach or exceed a certain point, they limit you to thinking that's the next step, that's how you should be thinking or that's how people should be when they're in relation to you, interacting and stuff. all you need to do is better yourself, not other people's thoughts, or lack of.

ok, that did not make any sense in writing and i sound like i'm trying to be philosophical, i will go eat now. or something.